pescetom, on 2026-August-11, 09:10, said:
The most wretched aspect as mentioned is that such situations invariably cause distress to the victim, whatever he does, particularly if he is inexperienced or timid. Thinking about it, the 1♦-(1♠)-2♦-2♠;3♣ disaster which cost us first place on Saturday was an unforced error by partner almost certainly induced by stress from the previous board, where (ironically) we scored a national top, but had an unpleasant run in with opponents.
On previous board both vulnerable I opened in second a weak 2♦ with 9 AQ9 Q98652 875, not everyone's cup of tea. We then bid to 5♦ over 4♠, a contract which to my surprise remained undoubled after two pregnant pauses. Partner laid down a delightful dummy of 542 T532 AK4 AK9 and once it became clear that LHO had started 6=1=2=4 it was easy to pick up the hearts leaving only a club still to lose. At this point in a normal situation I would have claimed, but the opponents were clearly of the level and mentality that would refuse a claim and say "play on"... which leads to an awkward Director call (surprisingly often Directors do not understand the related Law) at best. So I decided to play it out and I lost only the last trick. RHO beamed and said "One down", asserting they had won the last two tricks plus the spades lead. I explained patiently the last few tricks, but the opps started frantically turning up cards and getting their discards in a mess. I told them to stop and called the Director. Who luckily was calm and competent but we still had to reconstruct all thirteen tricks before the correct score was registered. Obviously partner and I both took a fair dose of adrenaline and frustration and predictably screwed up on the next round, losing enough partnership confidence to blow the tournament. There's just no easy solution to this, except perhaps to have a very thick skin and limited social ambitions.
History repeated itself (as tragedy) yesterday, with an eerily similar situation at another club.
We bid to 2
♠ and RHO rather surprisingly given my spades took the push to 2NT, which ended the auction. Not unexpectedly we took 4 spades and 3 more tricks. "2 down", we said, but Declarer claimed he had won 7 tricks. Everyone had their discards in order and it was easy to spot the trick he had misplaced. I pointed this out, but he was having none of it, in the meantime his partner huffily sorted his cards and put them into the board. I called Director to the table and explained the situation, he tried to convince us to accept 2NT-1. I reminded him that it was his duty to determine the actual number of tricks if possible to do so and that three of us still had our discards in order on the table. The penny dropped. he reconstructed all thirteen tricks and ordered us to register 2NT-2. LHO turned to me and haughtily claimed "we came here to have fun, not for this": I bit my tongue.
Partner was understandably unnerved and made an unforced error on next board (failing to balance with 12 HCP and a stop) which cost us the tournament. He is the victim here, not the player who came to have fun.