barmar, on 2017-January-20, 10:17, said:
Lots of TV shows have made a big deal about biological parenthood. The most notable one is the show "Switched at Birth", which is about two families (an affluent white family and a lower middle-class Latino one) who discover that their now-teenage daughters were switched at the hospital. Of course you expect to take home the child you gave birth to, but after 15 years, why would someone really feel the need to form a relationship with someone who just happened to be genetically related to them? I can certainly understand being curious about your biological parents, but is there really more to it than that? On other shows, a long-absent parent has come back and tried to get custody -- it seems crazy to me that the law actually supports this. After a certain amount of time, the biological relationship should become irrelevant.
The inter-racial aspect certainly complicates matters. I mentioned during one of the episodes where this was being heavily played that the show seemed to be making a strong case against inter-racial adoption. Becky felt it was making a strong case against adoption at all, and a particularly strong case against inter-racial adoption. Some year back there was some vocal folks in the black community that were strongly opposed to white parents adopting black children. I have not heard much on that movement lately, maybe it has subsided.
Of course in this show everything works out fine. The found black father is (literally) beyond belief as a truly great guy. Again, just fot contrast I will give you this. Thanks to the internet, I checked out a little about my birth parents. My mother had their names although she was not suppose to, and she gave me this info when I was 12. I never sought them out. My birth father married another woman during my birth mother's pregnancy, and they had a child shortly after. Apparently he had gotten two women pregnant at more or less the same time and on the coin flip of whom to marry, or however the decision was made, my birth mother lost (or perhaps I should say won). Sure I could have tracked him down and used him as a role model, but I think leaving well enough alone was a good choice. This history may be more personal than is appropriate online, but I do find the perfect character of William to be more than a little unlikely.