South leads the ♣A and dummy is tabled with Jx in clubs and 2542 shape but fewer hcp than might have been expected. North gives an encouraging signal and then asks that the cards be left on the table for a good 5 seconds as it is the first trick. South now starts to tank whereupon North bangs their cards down on the table and lets out an irritated sigh. A few seconds later South plays a club to West's king. North reacts to this by saying "Why did it take you so long?"
Are North's actions acceptable? East is somewhat inexperienced in dealing with issues of Laws and Ethics and almost never calls the Director. How should they handle a situation like this best? Has South been ethical in continuing clubs? Is it fair to ask a playing Director to make a ruling for/against themselves in such a club game? Finally, if East had called the Director about this and you were asked to make a ruling what would it be?