sceptic, on Sep 9 2004, 01:29 PM, said:
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DO NOT log private chat, if you dont want to talk to someone because they are rude to you, black list them and click ignore enemies, that works perfectly.
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I used to have ignore enemies selected. However, when I was in a tournament where an "enemy" was opponent, I didn't understand why I was getting no answer to my question about the meaning of a bid...
Similarly, if I recall correctly I've once or twice had an "enemy" as a partner in an individual tournament. Makes no sense to ignore chat (sayc p? 2/1? why won't you answer?!

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I think Uday's proposed system, logging even private chat for a day or so, retrievable if necessary but otherwise deleted, is very reasonable. I had occasion, unfortunately, to make a report for the first time this evening and it was a pain to copy multiple screenshots to the clipboard, paste into a document, e-mail it to abuse, etc.
Thus, with Uday's proposal, the ONLY situation in which anyone other than the recipient would see private chat is if either you or they reported abuse. And if they reported abuse, then they could (by more tedious means) send exactly the same private chat as would be accessed under this system.
The only problem is if you don't trust BBO. And if you don't trust BBO, why are you sending chat they could access?