EugeneLS, on 2026-November-04, 10:39, said:
In my experience, in my f2f bridge days, at our small club the Director was also one of the players (hopefully, a matter of trust, that they wouldn't take advantage of seeing a board they hadn't yet played). It was all, 99% of the time, very friendly. If we had to call the Director it was usually to rule on an obvious infringement like a revoke or insufficient bid - and no-one could object to that.
However, I recall a slightly unpleasant incident when "Director!" was called against me. I'd just doubled my RHO's bid and he promptly called the Director, I couldn't fathom why. It transpired that he'd seen my partner 'grimace' in some way when I doubled. I'd not noticed this at all, I was looking at my hand and the bidding cards. Honest!
The Director, thankfully, ruled that this was a non-event and the board should be played out as normal. But for some time after that I harboured a bit of a grudge against the opponent in question. Could he have handled his suspicions a bit more tactfully?
ES>> I'd just doubled my RHO's bid and he promptly called the Director, I couldn't fathom why. It transpired that he'd seen my partner 'grimace' in some way when I doubled. I'd not noticed this at all, I was looking at my hand and the bidding cards.
Concerning fair play. When it is likely (probable) that a player was unaware of inferences due to being oblivious (attention was directed elsewhere –judged here by the TD) I don’t want inferences created improperly by drawing attention unnecessarily when it could be done later. (however, when an opponent gratuitously makes such a remark I consider it on him that he caused/ converted UI to AI for my side) even when the bridge authority policy is for the player to immediately stand on the table and accuse the his opponent by drawing attention to such an incident lest to do so later forfeits ALL credibility.
So yes, because I choose to not ‘prematurely’ draw attention to (possible) inferences the policy frequently forfeits redress when the opponents ‘fortuitously get it right’ yet ‘improperly’ deny they created inferences and that leaves a bad taste.
Bridge is a game and I will remember that its place in my life is that of a game. I will respect those who play and endeavor to be worthy of their respect. I will remember that it is the most human of activities which makes bridge so interesting. And in doing so I will contribute my best and strive to conduct myself fairly. -Bridge Player’s Creed