[jandrew]

What am I doing to my friends?

Over the last two/three weeks I have noticed that some of my friends do not appear, either in Blue or Grey, on my “Friends List” (>People>Friends) when I know that they are online – I am even chatting to them and they are not on the list.

But if I click the “Show Offline” button – they appear as online and as where they are playing or kibitzing. But if I click “Show Offline” button off - they disappear again, but I can see them and chat with them.

So - shortly after 20.00 GMT on Thursday 28 January - I am directing a tournament and can see several friends (both Blue and Grey) are playing in the tournament. But they are not showing on my “Friends List”. I did a quick count:

Of the 20 ‘Blue’ Friends in the tournament only 4 showed up on the “Friends List”
Of the 31 ‘Grey’ Friends in the tournament only 11 showed up on the “Friends List”

Where have all my friends gone? We are all on the same server – playing in or directing the same tournament. They are all on the “Show Offline” list which shows them all playing in the tournament. But they are not on the normal list.

Is it me?

[pilowsky]

jandrew, on 2021-January-29, 04:03, said:

What am I doing to my friends?

Over the last two/three weeks I have noticed that some of my friends do not appear, either in Blue or Grey, on my "Friends List" (>People>Friends) when I know that they are online – I am even chatting to them and they are not on the list.

But if I click the "Show Offline" button – they appear as online and as where they are playing or kibitzing. But if I click "Show Offline" button off - they disappear again, but I can see them and chat with them.

So - shortly after 20.00 GMT on Thursday 28 January - I am directing a tournament and can see several friends (both Blue and Grey) are playing in the tournament. But they are not showing on my "Friends List". I did a quick count:

Of the 20 'Blue' Friends in the tournament only 4 showed up on the "Friends List"
Of the 31 'Grey' Friends in the tournament only 11 showed up on the "Friends List"

Where have all my friends gone? We are all on the same server – playing in or directing the same tournament. They are all on the "Show Offline" list which shows them all playing in the tournament. But they are not on the normal list.

Is it me?

No, I have had the same problem intermittently. I try not to take it personally.

[barmar]

They may have logged in as "Invisible".

[jandrew]

barmar, on 2021-February-05, 10:02, said:

They may have logged in as "Invisible".

I did consider that but wasn't sure whether an invisible player who did not show up on the "online" list would, nevertheless, show up as online on the "offline" list.
In any event I doubted (to the point of rejection) that of 51 Blue/Grey friends who were playing in a tournament 36 would have bothered to logon as invisible leaving only 15 as visible.

[doktrin]

Even though we are following each other and BBO recognizes us as friends, I simply can’t see my regular partner in my Friends list when she is online. However, if I search for her username, I can find her and see that we are still friends.

I have no idea why this is happening. It’s really weird!

[jillybean]

doktrin, on 2026-November-06, 11:35, said:

Even though we are following each other and BBO recognizes us as friends, I simply can’t see my regular partner in my Friends list when she is online. However, if I search for her username, I can find her and see that we are still friends.

I have no idea why this is happening. It’s really weird!

She has signed on as invisible.