Then, on Board 15, this hand came up:
I led the ♥J, which seemed to me at the time to be a perfectly reasonable and natural lead. Then, before I could even blink, the play went ♥A, ♦A, diamond ruff, ♥K, diamond ruff, ♣A, diamond ruff, heart ruff, ♠A, spade. We got two trump tricks and a club. Well, all OK, right?
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That's when it got going. Mandy began to go off on a tirade, saying that any bridge player who was any good at all and in his right mind would have led the ♠K.
I tried frantically to reason with Mandy and explain that the ♠K lead would be bananas without so much as being able to see dummy but she wouldn't listen. After remarking that it was "clear as day" to lead the ♠K and a little more ranting she left the table and since then hasn't said to me another word.
Despite this, I know that the fun and bright person who is Mandy is still there, and the thought of losing her for good is as much as I can bear... ..... Help?