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Former Flame An Unexpected Call

Poll: What's On Her Mind? (29 member(s) have cast votes)

What's On Her Mind?

  1. She misses him, but only the friendship. (3 votes [10.34%])

    Percentage of vote: 10.34%

  2. She misses him, romantically. (5 votes [17.24%])

    Percentage of vote: 17.24%

  3. She was just looking to see what it was. (4 votes [13.79%])

    Percentage of vote: 13.79%

  4. Could be either. (8 votes [27.59%])

    Percentage of vote: 27.59%

  5. She's just being polite. Checking in. (3 votes [10.34%])

    Percentage of vote: 10.34%

  6. Who cares, he shouldn't tear open old wounds. (6 votes [20.69%])

    Percentage of vote: 20.69%

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#21 User is offline   han 

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Posted 2008-January-24, 13:54

I would probably go and meet her. It may hurt a bit but it will likely be worth it. What she is thinking is irrelevant, he should have no hopes of getting back together.

If he doesn't want to then he shouldn't feel obligated to meet her, he should only do it if he thinks it would be good for himself. Ditto for her.
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Posted 2008-January-24, 14:01

Why are people being so harsh to the girl?

We can conjecture all we want, but basically he can't know until he meets her. Even then, he may not know afterward, but if your friend is emotionally able to meet her in person, well then he hasn't lost anything.

All that matters is whether he wants to meet her or not, and whether or not he is stable enough.
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Posted 2008-January-24, 14:05

Yep, well said goobers.
Please note: I am interested in boring, bog standard, 2/1.

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Posted 2008-January-24, 14:11

mike777, on Jan 23 2008, 06:49 PM, said:

pclayton, on Jan 23 2008, 05:54 PM, said:

Jlall, on Jan 23 2008, 01:43 PM, said:

it's just like peyton and lucas on one tree hill

or Bo and Hope on Days of our Lives.

Sorry, showing my age.

I think he meant to write Luke and Laura
http://en.wikipedia....nd_Laura_Webber

I have no idea what a one tree hill is.

It's a teenie bopper tv show. I think you're better off not knowing.
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Posted 2008-January-24, 17:57

i was alright
for awhile
i could smile for awhile
~~~
you couldn't know
that i was cry i i ing over you
cry i i ing
over you

i prefer rebekah del rio's version (one of the best performances i've ever heard) even though i can't speak spanish

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Posted 2008-January-27, 04:08

goobers, on Jan 24 2008, 03:11 PM, said:

mike777, on Jan 23 2008, 06:49 PM, said:

pclayton, on Jan 23 2008, 05:54 PM, said:

Jlall, on Jan 23 2008, 01:43 PM, said:

it's just like peyton and lucas on one tree hill

or Bo and Hope on Days of our Lives.

Sorry, showing my age.

I think he meant to write Luke and Laura
http://en.wikipedia....nd_Laura_Webber

I have no idea what a one tree hill is.

It's a teenie bopper tv show. I think you're better off not knowing.

For the record, my post was a joke which was meant to insinuate something.. hope this was obvious enough :)
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Posted 2008-January-27, 14:53

helene_t, on Jan 24 2008, 12:12 AM, said:

I see nothing abnormally (female or otherwise) in her behavior, the story sounds quite common.

Yeah, quite common, he wants something more, but she wants them to only be friends, somehow she always wins this game getting what she wants and he will be tortured forever B)
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Posted 2008-January-28, 11:58

Jlall, on Jan 27 2008, 05:08 AM, said:

For the record, my post was a joke which was meant to insinuate something.. hope this was obvious enough :)

I failed to pick up on that; I assumed you were serious because you actually knew the names of people on the show B)
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