fred, on Nov 17 2007, 12:34 AM, said:
Jon,
I admit that, at times, I have characterized some of the actions by some of the people in a sarcastic (and even rude) manner.
However, there are some big differences between me and you:
1) When I make such statements they are almost always accompanied by a statement of how much I like and respect the person in question and how surprised I am that he (actually they have mostly been she's) would be capable of such behavior.
2) I am not one to get involved in petitions or working behind the scenes. When I say something rude in public it is my own opinion and the consequences of my rudeness are between me and the person I was rude to. I do not start campaigns or lobby others to pass on my sarcastic and insulting comments to the people they refer to.
3) Despite my strong feelings about the wrongness of what the Venice Cup Team did I am able to put this aside, not call for anyone's blood, and offer some constructive suggestions on how disaster might be avoided. Your petition was not what I would call "constructive". The way you conveniently shift (almost) all the blame to the other side, (almost) completely ignore any wrongdoing by the group who created this mess, and launch your own call for blood reminds me of the tactics of those you claim to despise so much (Sean Hannity comes to mind).
4) I have no strong political views that at least have the potential to bias everything that I write. I am not a member of either the loony left or the crazy right.
Sorry in advance, but I am not going to let myself be dragged into another argument here (at least not today).
Fred Gitelman
Bridge Base Inc.
www.bridgebase.com
Fred,
"1) When I make such statements they are almost always accompanied by a statement of how much I like and respect the person in question and how surprised I am that he (actually they have mostly been she's) would be capable of such behavior."
I don't share your view that someone must like me, respect me or praise me in order to criticize me. Nor must I like them, respect them or praise them in order to criticize them. Your view is certainly more diplomatic and will win you more friends in life. Mine is more honest and straightforward. To each his own.
"2) I am not one to get involved in petitions or working behind the scenes. When I say something rude in public it is my own opinion and the consequences of my rudeness are between me and the person I was rude to. I do not start campaigns or lobby others to pass on my sarcastic and insulting comments to the people they refer to."
Your 2nd point seems to imply that I am somehow trying to lurk in the shadows while my gullible puppets do my evil bidding. C'mon now. Get serious. First, I'm here with my real picture, with a link to my website, www.jonathanferguson.com I'm as transparent as can be. When I first floated the idea of a petition, there were no takers. I let it drop. Today Josh resurrected the idea. So I started this thread. I asked others to propose the wording of the petition. Thus far I've had no takers. So I proposed wording of my own. Critical of both sides in this matter. Not sarcastic, no. Insulting? Well, yes, criticism is often perceived as insulting.
"3) Despite my strong feelings about the wrongness of what the Venice Cup Team did I am able to put this aside, not call for anyone's blood, and offer some constructive suggestions on how disaster might be avoided. Your petition was not what I would call "constructive". The way you conveniently shift (almost) all the blame to the other side, (almost) completely ignore any wrongdoing by the group who created this mess, and launch your own call for blood reminds me of the tactics of those you claim to despise so much (Sean Hannity comes to mind)."
It's the Board that "wants blood." I believe in the golden rule. If they want to treat the Venice Cup team like that, they should get some of their own medicine and decide if they like how it tastes. I also believe in fair warning. If they come down hard on the team in SF, I think getting fired from the board will be the least of their concerns.
"4) I have no strong political views that at least have the potential to bias everything that I write. I am not a member of either the loony left or the crazy right."
I strongly believe in the US Constitution. I believe it's the greatest political document ever written. While you were busy competing for Junior championships, I was busy watching Sunday talk shows, dreaming of the day I could move to the US. That should not make me a radical. Unfortunately, in the last 7 years, the US government has been overthrown by a group of radicals intent on destroying the principles outlined in that document. To speak out against them is decried as radical behavior by some. I do not believe that is a rational or justifiable view, nor do the vast majority of non-Americans I speak to.
"Sorry in advance, but I am not going to let myself be dragged into another argument here (at least not today)."
Fine by me.
"Maybe we should all get together and buy Kaitlyn a box set of "All in the Family" for Chanukah. Archie didn't think he was a racist, the problem was with all the chinks, dagos, niggers, kikes, etc. ruining the country." ~ barmar